I remember hours at the beach on the Vinyard watching and sometimes playing as the kids played, swam and body surfed and played Kadima endlessly. There were beach picnics at night and walks to the farm up the road. There were hours watching my children and Annsley and Jared come together as a family, and those little kids showed us grownups how to do that, how to be a family: you play together. And Jared for my guys was the best example of how to do this. He was loving and fun and he was great to play with. So they, and all of us, loved him back.
-- Pam. Remembrance. May 2004.
Kate, Annsley, Gordon, Jared and [front] Will - Martha's Vineyard, 1994